First date and your nervous and need tips
The First Date is what I call nerve wrecking, what do I wear, what will I say and where will I go.
Now for the man its always the hardest, I’m sorry to say boys but you need to get your thinking caps on. Usually the women do expect the man to have the night all plan. Do not mess this up, this is key! Now for the big question, flowers or no flowers? I think women are not won over so easily anymore. So don’t be thinking u’ll be getting brownie points right away!
When you get there remember BE YOURSELF! Don’t put on some fake acted, you will be found out, women are not dumb, they are the smartest people on this planet, believe me. Remark on how good she looks, now this doesn’t mean you look at her boobs for ten minutes, this will sum u right up and have her thinking you just want one thing.
Now ladies I haven’t forgot about you, when the man arrives with his white pale face looking like he’s going to be sick, don’t worry this is for one reason and one reason only, he actually had to think for a change, this man has been going mad in the head all day hoping he doesn’t make a ass of himself, hoping he’s picked the right thing to wear and the right place to go, so go easy on him he’s only human.
Places to eat is always the killer, what does both of you like to eat. It really depends what kind of people you both are. Are you into big restaurants with the big fancy plate with hardly any food on it to fill it, or maybe both of you could call down to the local sit-in chippy, would that do the trick. I think the only thing you can do is try your best and put the thought into it as the thought does count.
Now did you get past the meal, I hope so, If you didn’t you’ll have to go back to the drawing board and work out what went wrong and how you fix it. Do not put the head down, some people just don’t have that spark and don’t have that attraction to each other.
If you have got past the meal and haven’t killed each other then maybe your on to something. Now some people go for a drink afterwards at a bar or maybe a club, if this does happen try not to get drunk, bad judgement has being made in the past in these positions.
So the night has come to the end, now boys we all know women like to be interdependent but make sure you get her home, if you have to get her a taxi so be it, maybe she’ll want you to walk her home if she lives close. Now this doesn’t mean you have to find the first condom machine boys, not everything is about sex.
If you end the night without a kiss doesn’t mean you’ve failed. People do take things slow, being too forward can say a lot about someone. If you jump in for that kiss that someone wasn’t expecting it can have that ending affect. But if everything has went well and you both like each other there’s nothing wrong with a peck on the cheek or if your lucky a kiss on the lips at the end of the night.
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